Bfs Teen daughter threatened me

Ok so I (29f) have been seeing this guy (39m) for 4 months now and things are beginning to get serious. He is a really good guy. Sweet respectful, attentive just an all around wonderful man. He is also a single father to his daughter (18f) The story goes his ex wife cheated on him and ran off with another man leaving him to raise their daughter alone.

So last night he invites me over to their house to dinner to meet his daughter for the first time. During dinner she is somewhat cold to me but not outwardly rude. Just distant and cold. When he was clearing the table and washing dishes in the kitchen she pulled me (roughly) aside and with her hand forcefully holding my shoulder said that her father had been hurt in the past by women and she wouldn't let that happen to him again. That her father would never hit or abuse a woman but that she absolutely would and that she would make sure I would regret hurting him if I ever did. I guess she knows some martial art and she was not joking or kidding she was deadly serious. I told her I wouldn't hurt him and she said something like you better not. I left shortly after and haven't told him yet what she said to me. He loves her more then anything and I really dont want to come in between them. I dont know what to do here. I like him a lot he is a really good man but I am scared to bring this up with him and maybe come between them or make him think he has to choose between us, but I'm also a little afraid of her now.

tldr; my bfs teen daughter threatened me after saying her dad had been hurt before. Should I tell him or ignore it?

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**edit** I saw him today for breakfast and I brought it up with him. He said he was sorry she did that. I asked him how I could build a bridge with her. He said she used to like to go out and get her hair and nails done with his ex they would day girls days together where they would go to the spa, do their hair and nails have mani/pedis etc.. and that his daughter likes anime (I do too) and is trying to learn Japanese (My family are Japanese and I speak it) so I will see if we can have a girls day and just talk about our mutual interests.

I didn't mention this in my op and this is probably important but I am a single mom so one thing I can really identify with him about is being a single parent and getting absolutely no help from the other parent.

Submitted August 20, 2019 at 10:01PM by newgf99 https://ift.tt/2KMXOL2