I have broken up with my ex for various reasons a month ago. I discovered that he wasnt who he portrayed himself to be, and saw felt he is a little off. He has shown me that he thinks violence is a solution to a lot of things, and even blamed me for his temper tantrums when he couldnt get things to go like he wanted. He pushed and pushed and even wanted to get engage in less than 6 months of knowing each other.
There is a lot but I broke up with him becasue I didnt tolerate that he was so immature and generally acting like a low life. We luckily live in two different countries, me in scandinavia and him in south europe. But his behaviour and how he has actually gone around saying that we will end up together to people we know actually worries me that whenever I go to south of europe to visit family, he will full out stalk and probably assault me too.
Recently, like a few weeks ago, I discovered a page on instagram had been watching all of my stories, which to me looked really suspicious. The name of the user looked really similarly written to how my ex had his name written. So if his name was Johnny it was written johnny.25. The username to the suspicious account was hustleboyz.25. Looks really similar right, only he would have something like that. The suspicious account also had 0 follower, 0 following and 0 posts. So just nails it to being him stalking me.
It really pisses me off, like it makes me absolutely mad that he in his sick head thinks I wont notice him stalking me, and that he still obsesses over me like I am a prized possesion when we just dated shy of 3 months before I broke it off. He dont think he ever did anything wrong and when pointed out on his behaviour he would say things like I wouldnt have done this and this if you didnt say that and that. He even had a lot of family members try and call my own parents so that they could lecture me and teach me to go back to him. It happened several times and praise my mother for telling them to back off and question their reality for not realising that I am independent and dont need a man.
Its all a shitshow that really boils my blood and I really wanted to do something about it. I really wanted to make it known to him by tagging that fake account on quotes that berates people that stalk. But I got stopped by a good friend who just said to block. I feel like I should have at least made it known I knew that he was stalking me, because he will probably just create new accounts to stalk me again.
And the stalking might even go from cyber stalking to actually stalking me in real life. For that reason I dont dare to go and visit my family in south europe, and actually might never return. Any advice on what I can do except anything legally, since I dont think that country actually has laws against stalking and harassement.
(EDIT: I forgot to mention that I cant delete or make my account private, I promote art I make as a side job)
Submitted November 27, 2019 at 02:16AM by Lostwolfsoul https://ift.tt/35DBn2s
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