Hi all, hopefully you can help with this! TL;DR at the bottom.
So I met this guy on Aug. 2nd at a meetup event where we were on the same mini-golf team. Afterward, he walked me back to my car and we chatted for a bit, and he said he thought everyone was going to go out for a drink, too bad they didn't. I suggested just us to go. We went to a bar and each had 1 drink, but we were there for about 5 hours just talking. Afterward, he walked me to my car again, and we talked again for another 30 minutes or so. Then we hugged goodbye and he asked for a kiss, and we kissed at my car (behind a building, no one was around) for another 45 minutes or so.
During the night, he had mentioned several times how we should do something again (asked me what days were good for me, told me to let him know about the bar trivia I planned to do that week, etc) and gave me his phone number without prompting. He also didn't try to get me to go home with him, and hasn't tried to sext with me, both of which I appreciate.
I texted him on Sunday asking how his Saturday plans had gone, we chatted a bit, and then I asked him if he still wanted to hang out this week. He said "yes, for sure" and then when I mentioned either trivia on Tuesday or just us two on Thursday, he said "I might be able to on Tuesday, if not than later during the week". Since he didn't nail down a day, all I said was awesome, and then he replied "you're awesome for making my Friday night a good one!". We then chatted over text for about 4-5 hours. On Monday, we messaged a bit, and then on Tuesday I asked him if he was planning on doing trivia so I could give him details. He said "I was hoping to see you today but I forgot it's my moms birthday today and we're going to dinner as a family", which I was disappointed about (how do you forget that?) but then he asked me a lot of questions about trivia and later texted me to ask how the night was going.
We didn't talk Wednesday, I texted him on Thursday afternoon and we chatted for a few hours again. Friday morning he texted me first and we texted the entire day. Around 6pm he asked what I was doing on the weekend (one thing of which being another meetup we were both RSVP'd to), but when I suggested we hang out, he ignored that and just commented on the dinner plans I had with my friend that Friday. I didn't respond after that and he said "guess what I just found in the pocket of my pants", and when I said money, he said "not money, better. A tissue with your lipstick on it". I joked that when I was famous I would autograph it, but then he didn't reply to I said sorry for putting trash in his pocket. He said no prob and then said it was a good memory. I replied the same and convo died.
The next morning, he asked if I was going to the meetup and I said yes, and he said that he wasn't going to go, but if I was going, then he would too. There were about 10 people at the art festival, but after everyone else left, he and I stayed to wonder around at more booths and listen to the live music (his suggestion). He mentioned twice how he wasn't feeling the best and his throat had hurt for the last 2 days. At this point, we had skipped lunch so he suggested we get some food, but that he didn't want to sit down and wait, so he picked Culvers. I went up to order for myself, but then he came up and said we'd be together and paid. We were there about an hour, and he drove me back to my car, but then he said something like maybe next time he wouldn't be sick, and clearly didn't go in for a kiss. I said thanks and bye and hopped out.
I texted him about 4 hours later saying I hoped he felt better after some rest, and then we chatted over text again from about 930pm to 1am. We both had big plans on Sunday, so I wasn't too surprised when I didn't hear from him. I texted him yesterday after work and we chatted for a few hours about random things again.
At this point, I've resolved not to message him again, since I feel like I've done most of the reaching out. I can't judge where he is at. Is he just wanting to take it really slow? I don't get the impression that he's really shy. If he just wants to chat and be friends why does he say flirty things? He's the one that brought up hanging out first, but then he didn't take any opportunity I put out there. Does anyone have any insights on this?
TL;DR: Guy seemed to be interested at first, being flirty and saying we should hang out, but seems to be taking things really slowly. Not sure if he just is keeping me on the back-burner, or if he is just a slow mover.
Thanks!
Submitted August 13, 2019 at 06:28PM by frenchvanilla0402 https://ift.tt/2YHjKj8
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