[F4F]UK 🎵🐤 Looking for a Mom / Mum / Mother figure / big sister 🐻🍬

My biological Mother is dead and I've never been able to have any sort of Mother figure in my life and it has really held me back. The need for a guiding female figure has only got stronger as I've got older and more lost and alone in the world.
I am now in my 20s, but still have not been able to overcome issues like growing up, fitting in with teenagers/adults, making friends, dealing with bullying, social exclusion, and having teenage/adult life experiences (e.g. birthdays, parties, raves, festivals, drinking, first relationship, first kiss, graduation, first job, first car etc). I've missed such a huge chunk of my life. I also missed out on all the love, affection, bonding and memories people have with their family and all the wisdom, advice, guidance and emotional support that girls get from their Mother figures. I only have two family members who are both male and I have absolutely no emotional relationship with either of them. There has never been anyone in my life to turn to for support or advice or comfort and it has left me very lost and lonely and confused and emotionally starved and it really messed up my development. I've got autism which I never got any kind of support for and there is nothing in my area for people beyond school age. People seem to think your problems magically go away once you hit 16, but for me they haven't, they've just got worse. I'm still dealing with all the struggles of a pre-teen and was never able to make the jump to being a teenager, I'm just stuck and everything after has stacked up and I'm completely out of my depth. I wish I could find somebody who wouldn't immediately judge me and dismiss me because of my age.

What I long for more than anything in the world is a loving, caring Mother or big sister type figure in my life who would would like spending quality time together, going on days out, bonding, making memories and having fun. Somebody who would be positive and encouraging and hold my hand and help me experience the things in life I missed out on and share all those memories with me. Someone who would open up my world, but also be responsible and protective and keep me safe. Somebody I could look up to, who would be comforting and emotionally supportive.

You don't have to actually be older than me, just have more life experience than me, which is easy. I don't need any money or personal care, just an emotional connection and quality time together.

I'd like to spend days out doing fun things together. Some stuff we could do: see animals, go shopping, do hobbies together, baking, sewing, crafts, den building, nature walks, picnics, girly things like nail art or makeovers, go to the seaside, go on holidays, go to cute cafes, ice skating, arcades, play games together, conventions, or anything you like to do! Maybe you could introduce me to grown up stuff like nights out? I am also looking for friends to hang out with too. I'm in the midlands but can travel anywhere on a train.

Hobbies/interests: animals 🐹 toys (mainly Sylvanians and Amuse)🧸 Sanrio and cute stuff 🎠 J-fashion 🎀 Asian cosmetics 💄 shopping 🛍️ digital art 🎨 crafts and making stuff 🔨 photography 📷 nature 🌳 baking 🧁 learning Japanese 🇯🇵 pastel colours 🌈 DDR type music/EDM/J-pop/K-pop girl groups 🎵 sweet things 🍪 I'd love to go to conventions and learn to make clothes/costumes and go urban exploring and try other new things. Someday, I'd really love to go travelling, especially to Japan, I have a huuge list of things I want to do there, just need people to go with 😅 Also, the seaside and Disneyland and somewhere snowy 😁✈️

Submitted July 22, 2019 at 06:32PM by LemonLoppy https://ift.tt/2JIr0SE