THIS IS A VENT: I’m sorry if this doesn’t make any sense because I am just typing this right after blowing up on my brother.
Side note: I’m 3w2 and I feel like the 2 side of me wants to help my immediate family succeed as much as possible and that’s how this whole thing happens.
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I feel like the ONE THING I HATE THE MOST is purposeful incompetence and laziness (okay that’s two sorry).
My brother is an INFP and prefers to relax alllllllll the time. That’s his motto “chill hard, rest, chill harder”. While that’s fun to be around when we are all wanting to chill and play... He doesn’t put any effort into anything that requires effort and he would rather say “I don’t know how to do it can you just do it”.
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I once wrote him his entire resume going through pages of his extracurriculars etc and placed in brackets [include examples of what you did here]. I told him he must double check and include examples.
HE TOLD ME HE DOUBLE CHECKED BUT HE SENT IT TO EMPLOYERS with the brackets!!!!
Just for a quick visualization:
Arts and Crafts Volunteer - [insert examples of what you did here]
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He and I also got called for a job to help our parents and he did absolutely nothing except watch YouTube videos cause he “doesn’t know how to do it” THEN LEARN IT? YOU ARE GETTING PAID? I couldn’t even confront him so much about it or teach him because there were many customers and of course I had to take it on all by myself.
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I tutored him for several days for his Chemistry Final Exam, while I had my own exams and work to do. I went through everything over and over with him and he would pick his nails and look elsewhere and tell me “yeah yeah I got it”. I assigned him practice problems and tried my BEST to make time for him to tutor him on the subject. He told me he would do the practice problems outside of our tutor time. HE NEVER DID THEM. HE GOT A C. Why make me spend so many hours tutoring you if you’re not gonna make any effort to study it in your own time and listen during tutoring?! Why the NO effort?!
Did I do all that so you could get a C? I wanted you to so badly get an A that i pushed off my own work to help as much as I could.
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Another thing, my mother. She will give me all of these new tasks to do for herself cause she doesn’t know how to do it. GOOGLE IT. YOUTUBE IT. I don’t know how to do everything either but I google it and follow the directions.
NO MATTER how busy everyone knows that I am, and no matter HOW FREE they are; THEY ALL ASK ME TO DO IT BECAUSE THEY SAY THEY DONT KNOW HOW.
I’m so pissed right now because I feel like they know that I will do it right and actually do it fast since I put my mind to it and they are taking advantage of this.
THEY COULD HAVE WATCHED THE SAME YOUTUBE VIDEO I DID TO HELP. I learned it from scratch too!!! And I am LITERALLY the busiest one out of everyone.
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MY POINT: STOP OFF LOADING WORK ONTO ME BECAUSE YOU WANT YOUR FREE-TIME AND DONT CARE ABOUT MINE. MAKE SOME DAMN EFFORT TO DO YOUR OWN SHIT. (This is talking to the lazy people)
I don’t know how to deal with this anymore!! I love them so much and want to help them but am I enabling their lazy behavior? Do they respect my time?
Again sorry this is a vent. I HATE LAZINESS ABOVE ALL BECAUSE THE IS A CHOICE YOU ARE MAKING TO NOT PUT ANY EFFORT INTO ANYTHING YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR.
Submitted June 22, 2019 at 04:25PM by Hkc6789 http://bit.ly/2FqbatE
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