I [24F] don't know what to do about my depressed boyfriend [22M]

Hi. Throw Away account for obvious reasons. His depression is (not to be dramatic) ruining the relationship.

He has not showered in almost 2 weeks , the dandruff is in large visible clumps clumps and i just feel bad.

He stinks, yet still makes me touch him all the time but refuses to touch me like at all. Except grab my boobs sometimes lmao.

We go outside everyday and walk for at least 4 hours a day and then he comes home and gets into bed with his wet socks and sweaty pits. Both ends of my comforter reek either of pits or feet and there's no way you can flip it that there isn't. I can't afford to clean it right now so it just keeps getting smellier and smellier as the days go by.

His nails are black all the time because he scratches himself while his hair and skin is so dirty.

He never washes his hands.

He never helps me clean anything up. Never puts stuff in the kitchen after eating it IN MY BED. The crumbs are insane.

I hate to say this but he is the most unhygienic person i have ever met. I used to not be bothered by it but holy shit i can't handle it now. I've even told him if he doesn't shower we aren't having sex but then he just doesn't shower and expect me no jack him off because that isn't sex right?? (/s)

I wish i could tell him to get help but he has anger issues and believes that therapists are useless and therapy doesn't work and big pharma is out to get us. So that won't end well lmao.

I've been making such an effort go get better with going to therapy and taking my meds and keeping my space clean and keeping myself happy by avoiding triggers but right now the person i share a living space with is one of them.

i don't know how to sit him down and talk to him about it. he needs help. and he refuses. he's so angry all the time and he just lays down and uses his laptop all day instead of doing anything. even art. he used to be an artist but now he never does it.

i know i sound like a heartless bitch but he really needs help. like so badly. i think i might leave him if he doesn't.

TLDR; boyfriend is super depressed , i'm angry about it so i ranted a bit. he needs help but won't do it. any advice like at all ? i don't really know what about ... uhh like what would you do in this situation ?

Submitted March 19, 2019 at 05:51PM by ThrowAway58383829292 https://ift.tt/2Y7V8fx