Relationship advice I've learned in my life so far and how to get a girlfriend. [Part One]

- Girls are just people, dont put them on a pedestal, normal girls hate it, and the ones who require it are not worth your time.

- If you look hungry you are going to starve. Dont ask out every girl in your school, in no time you will be "that guy" and no one will go out with you.

- This research says: " When you first meet new people, their initial impression of you will be based 55% on your appearance and body-language, 38% on your style of speaking and only 7% on what you actually say. " Read that article. It might be long, but it is actually good advice, unlike those 10 minute long youtube videos.

- Dress well, wear clothes that fit you and colors that compliment each other. This post can help with colors. Getting fit will help clothes fit better. Keep your shoe clean, and wear nice shoes. These shoes can be very versatile and look great.

- Smile. I had my first kiss because I smiled at a girl.

- Read the book " How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dalen Carnegie. It is old but the advice is still relevant today. The book "No More Mr. Nice Guy " by Robert A. Grover is said to be good advice, I haven't read it, but if you are afraid of turning into a nice guy then you should give it a go. Also just read for fun.

- Forget everyting you read in r/TheRedPill, r/seduction, and r/Braincels. These subs are full of hate and bad advice, don't become one of them. 0,1% of the advice seduction gives can be good but it is full of bullshit, fake stories and advice women hate.

- Don't just confess love to people you barley know. It newer worked in the past, dosen't work now and won't work in the future. She will be weirded out and reject you.

- Learn to love yourself, or atleast accept it. You can't expect others to love you if you hate yourself.

- Dont be a niceguy. I dont think this needs further explaining.

- Have a hobby apart from gaming, netflix and reddit. Learn to play an instrument, do some sport, make music, make art or go hiking. It will make you more interesting.

- Don't message girls if you are drunk or under the influence of drugs, especially MDMA. Write the message down somewhere and send it when you are sober. I can guarantee you will not send it 99% of the time. Also dont confess love under the influence.

- Learn to give and take a compliment. If someone compliments you say thank you. You don't have to compliment them back. Dont compliment girls you are not in a relationship with on their body, the only expection is hair.

- Don't try to grow a beard if you cant. Get haircuts regularly, and ask your barber when you should come next. Wash your face and moisturize. Pluck your unibrow, dont shave it. Cut your nails atleast once a week or they gonna look gross.

- Don't be afraid to taker risks and move out of your comfront zone. Try new things. This can be a new food, sport, hairstyle, hobby, clothing style or anything.

- Ask out someone early, not after years of friendship.

- Getting rejected by your crush feels better than living with regert. This comic is relevant

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This was part one, and it was just general advice. If people want I can write a second part discussing first dates.

Submitted September 02, 2018 at 03:23PM by _Idiot__Savant_ https://ift.tt/2wBFsnY