Ok I have been lurking and commenting in this community since roughly 2017. I think that there is something lacking in the posts here that will actually help us women, and I think it may be because of all the males here, who will obviously have a slightly different agenda.
I want to write up a little something for us ladies from a pragmatic viewpoint that will actually resonate more with the style of the mens' redpill forum. This is something that will 100% benefit us ladies. I will assume that we are looking for marriage material men, who are dominant. This post isn't about locking down fuckboys and submitting to a rando. Also this post probably doesn't apply to very religious people.
In essence, I'll try to cover what I think most posts are missing. it's by no means a comprehensive guide.
Before we start - childhood trauma. So many times I see girls on here who want men that are borderline abusive. Please ladies take care of our own mental health!! Long term negging by emotionally distant men, narcissistic men, and straight up abusive exes can change our perception of what we consider attractive. We try to recreate the situation with different people and more control each time, to try to figure out where we went wrong. Please search up "trauma bonding" to learn more, and make sure we are all emotionally healthy before we begin. Emotional unstability and dating wild abusive men can be fun but ultimate emotional control is what gets us to our goal (of rich hot dominant men and cute babies!)
Okay now to start.
Respect (frame for girls) - Having self respect is the most important thing. If you believe you are worthy of being treated badly, people will treat you badly. Why is it important for us? Rich men, fuckboys, intelligent men, sexy men, they all have 50 girls who pretend to like what they like while bending over backwards to suck their dick for a chance to see them again. Set yourself apart. You are not on his level if he does not need to work for your attention.
Frame is RP jargon for basically composure. Our composure should be based entirely on our concept of self respect. Women worth dating do NOT. EVER. tolerate disrespect. It doesn't matter how nice and submissive and pretty you are, if someone hasn't proved they are worth your time and you give it to them, you are telling them that they are better than you. It is a human trait, not a male or female trait. Men love to chase, so give them something to work for.
Standards - When you're first dating someone there is nothing wrong with having standards. If you want someone dominant, it is in your best interest to find someone much better than you who you respect enough to submit you, rather than finding someone mediocre and convincing yourself he's dominant. It's okay to have financial and elitist standards as well. We as women are biologically attracted to that :)
Attracting men - It's more than wearing a dress. You need to figure out what you want to attract. Mormon? Frilly sundress is okay. He's into anime? Wear something cute. Rich NYC dude? Something more boutique 2019 please. Drug lord? Gucci and fashion nova.
Next, personality. Be bubbly and an empath. Be the one that sees the good in everyone, the fun in every situation, and compassion for every living thing. Also, play dumb, as in don't ever give out advice especially in a "why dont you just do this" kind of way. You should be his fun escape from stress in life. Intellectual discussions are fine but keep it intellectual, not personal.
Actual dating - Don't settle for a coffee date.
Don't talk about yourself much except to establish your worth (education, career, aspirations). Focus on him, ask him what makes him happy, what he enjoys. You can tell their true value from subtle things they mention about their past and interests and whatnot.
Don't ever discredit and devalue yourself by saying your interests are stupid or unworthy. A real man respects a woman's interests, whether it is photography, art, makeup, nails, baking, or sewing.
Lastly, all high value men want someone with aspirations. These men did not get to where without a burning desire to achieve more, and they want a girl who is able to contribute to their lives, rather than just leech off money and stay at home with kids. Men like that are surrounded by high achieving people. Be someone classy they can show off at work functions, with your own hustle or specialty.
After the first date - let him know that your time is a commodity. you're excited to see him but not free. wait for him to plan something interesting, that requires some thought or dedication. Otherwise, be "busy" with work and your hobbies.
When he does reschedule, you can tell how interested he is by how much effort he put into it.
Male red pill (dating) tactics
He negs you? Recognize it and DON'T respond to it. If he doesn't stop, NEXT. If he does, then he is showing you at least an ounce of the respect you deserve. As red pill initiated women, we know that negging comes from a place of lack of respect for another as human beings. Can you really convince yourself a man like that is worth submitting to?
He tries to sleep with you early? Make him prove to you that he is worthy through actions, not words. Men love a challenge and if you've read up on red pill tactics, you should know what he might try to use on you. Those men think that putting effort into pussy is cutting their lives short. Very easy to weed out.
If he seems stingy towards you, next him. You don't want to be stuck with 3 crying kids and a husband who wants you to "do your job as a mom" while you're paying half the bills. This should be a given but just in case...
Don't ever let a man make you jealous. Make sure he knows where your boundaries are with cheating and then the ball is in his hands. Do not devalue yourself by comparing yourself to another girl. If he cares, he will never cross that boundary.
Submitted November 04, 2019 at 12:10PM by weewooweewoo4 https://ift.tt/33oYmh7
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